The purpose of this article is not to convince you to adopt my way of life, but to guide you to the best definition of yourself.
Here 5 tips to reveal yourself, and be the person you really want to be in your inner-self. Consider my advices like tools to approach your ideal definition of yourself and become your best version.
1. Try have a clear vision of the best version of yourself
This tip is crucial. It just consists to understand what is the best version of yourself. What is your best definition? Is it to be more kind? Less shy? More confident? If you want, you can write it and visualize it. It can look like this :
“The best version of myself is…
Happy, confident, calm…❤”
Why is it so important?
If your goals are not clear, how can you have the best results? Blurred vision will bring you blurred results.
2. Put your beliefs into questions.
Our beliefs can be the bigger obstacles on the path to your personal growth.
In particular, beliefs like “I am too old/my life is too complicated”…
It is essential to put into questions your beliefs. Why? It is simple, thinking about it and questionning yourself will provide you the ability to find the good and the bad beliefs. Those that block you and those that will help you to grow.
3• try to be kind with everyone (or try to)
This advice is not so achievable than it looks like. It is not about loving deeply everyone you see, but to have a kind attitude.
All the bad energy you use about criticize or hating one person can be used for something that is more productive. And if you don’t like someone, try to be neutral. Be effective and intelligent.
4.find a goal in your life
Besides being a good mom, a good wife, a good sister… find something for YOU.
You may not find the ultimate goal immediately, so maybe you can begin with short period goal, it will help you to be motivated every morning. What do you want to achieve? The good answer is the one that makes you happy.
5. Stop taking everything too seriously
My last tip to find the best version of yourself is to have some fun. Life is a mystery, it is impossible to know every reason of each of your major life events.
So, don’t take it too seriously. Life doesn’t need to be complicated. Let your intuition and emotions guide you. Was it necessary to be mad about this or that? Think about it, and don’t forget that we are all here to experiment and learn to be happy.
Become a best version of yourself is a lifetime work. And this is exactly why it is beautiful. You will always have something to improve. Step by step, day by day.
I wish you the best.